I'm now purely irritated by this person who calls herself a GOOD friend. When you need her help, she disappears and only appears when it concerns her. you talk to her, and she speaks as though it is just to make you keep quiet. for things having to do with her studies/ future and whatsoever, she does them properly, for all other things that can be deemed as secondary in importance, including things that you see as being crucial, are done at the very last minute. she doesn't offer her help unless you ask her to do something, and she expects that when she needs your help, you HAVE to assist her. she knows that you are very anxious about something and purposely takes her time to dilly-dally in telling you what's the latest development, causing you to be worrying almost the entire day, even though its your birthday. you can't eat your birthday dinner/father's day dinner at ease because you feel that she is sooo irresponsible. she forgets that it is your birthday.

so there.